Luke 15:1-3,11b-32
Fourth Sunday of Lent: March 10, 2013
When
the economy first went south in 2009, there was a lot of talk about bail
outs. We heard about institutions “too
big to fail,” the consequences being too terrible if we let their own mistakes
take them down, and all of us along with them.
One
of the phrases that I heard a lot from David Brooks, and my dad for that
matter, was “moral hazard;” meaning if we bail out companies when it’s their
irresponsibility that led to the problem in the first place, they will be
encouraged to just continue the irresponsible behavior in the future; because,
why not? And, I have to say, that does
seem to be the case with some of the companies we bailed out to save the world economy
– irresponsibility continues and continues to threaten our well being.
There
was also a parallel conversation that took place on the individual level. There were many people who found themselves
upside down in their mortgages. Some
people and lawmakers advocated bailing them out as well. And the same conversation about moral hazard
came up, though curiously the phrased changed to “learned dependency.” If people don’t have to face the music, they
will learn that they can always depend on someone to clean up their messes.
Of
course, “learned dependency” is not a new term that we only apply to mortgage
relief. Hand outs, charity, welfare –
these all cause learned dependency. It’s
all fraught with moral hazard, and no one who has learned this dependency,
we’re told, can escape it until they are made to live by the consequences of
their bad decisions. They must be
rewarded and punished according to their merit or they will never have the
ability to care for themselves.
Okay
– fine. I’ve seen this – you’ve seen
this. There are people who don’t know
how to live off their own merit/work.
They are persistently dependent on hand outs and welfare, and in some
cases it’s probably legitimate to argue it’s because they do not have to face
the consequences of not being able to provide for themselves ,when really they
could. We’ve seen it.
And
we are seeing it in our story today. The
prodigal son: The perfect example of
moral hazard. The son took his father’s
money, squandered it in irresponsible decisions, and when he returns, the
father welcomed him back…not just as a hired hand who would have to make it on
his own, but into a wealthy family
and all the privileges that bestowed on a son in that culture.
And
– even more surprising – it wasn’t because he came back all contrite and
everything. It was just because he came
back…he sought help from his father. The
father, the text tells us, was not at all interested in the son’s apology. He interrupts his son, doesn’t let him get
his whole, practiced, apology speech out.
“No need. Grab the fatted
calf. You’re back. Welcome!”
A pretty great bail out, if you ask me…fraught with moral hazard.
What
in the world is the son going to learn from this? Isn’t the “take home message” that there are
no consequences for your behavior? What
would keep the son from doing it all over again?
The
older brother, who would probably rather have had David Brooks for a father
than the one he had, was mad because there was no justice in what happened to
his brother. The father treats both sons
the same. Well, actually, he treats the
prodigal son slightly better. The
irresponsible one gets the party. He got
money once, he will get more now that he’s back. No justice.
And certainly no tough love or hard lessons being learned.
I
can imagine the older brother joining in the chorus of those today concerned
with moral hazard. “Why does he get the
same thing I’ve earned by being loyal
and working hard. He’ll never learn how
to take care of himself!” But from the
passage’s point of view, it seems that the brother’s assessment of the
situation is the foil…the one that does not represent what Jesus believes about
how things should work.
The
prodigal son is a favorite passage for many Christians. While we can relate to the older brother, we
also sympathize with the father’s response because we tend to look at the
family aspect of this story. We
understand the tug and pull of family – of those we love so deeply it
hurts. The father loves his son, and he
wants him to know he always has a
place to come home to, no matter what happens.
Most of us think this makes for a good parent, and most of us with kids
want them to know in their hearts that no matter what they do we will love them
and be there for them. Not to mention many of us can relate deeply to this
story because we have been the
prodigal, welcomed back by our families:
bailed out.
But
this parable isn’t about family in the “live-together-as-a-household” sense. It’s not about whether wealthy families should
welcome back prodigal children after they have partied away their 20s and find
themselves in a huge bind. That’s a
story of privilege, and Jesus isn’t telling stories of privilege.
At
the very beginning of the passage, we see that he tells this parable because
people were asking him why he is eating with, accepting, welcoming the non-privileged;
the ones who weren’t a part of wealthy households. These – the ones Jesus eats with are like the
younger son in some ways – they are
sinners in the eyes of others, but unlike the prodigal, they truly have nowhere
to go. So they go to Jesus.
When
we remember what Jesus is addressing with his parable, the message gets
harder. It seems like he’s saying, “if a
father would do this for his son, and we are all a part of God’s family,
shouldn’t we do this for anyone?
Shouldn’t we embrace the bad decision makers who we might think are
responsible for their current reality…give them all we have and throw a party? You wonder why I eat with people you think
aren’t worthy, and I’m telling you it’s because we should do what this father
does for everyone, anyone, and all.” And
now we really feel like the older
brother.
We
don’t give people a warm welcome if they come desperate and looking for help,
if we think helping them will just lead to learned dependency. In fact, it makes our stomach tie up in knots
a little bit – giving money to someone who we’re sure could work for a living
and just doesn’t want to. It’s hard to
keep giving money to the same person over and over when they make no effort to
change their lives or fix what has led them to need money in the first place.
And
so, when someone comes for help, we require things. We have standards…expected behaviors. They can’t be immoral. They can’t be gaming the system. They can’t be taking advantage of us. We’re pretty sure they should be contrite. We will give money once, maybe twice, but if
that doesn’t do the trick, then we balk because we start to realize they will
never stop coming. Ever. Learned dependency.
But
when you think about it, aren’t the non-privileged, those not in families who
would always welcome them home, those who don’t have anywhere else to turn when
they have messed up over and over, in more
need of being helped…unconditionally.
When you live without the security of having loving people or communities to fall back on,
it affects you.
It
affects how you look at life, at others, at God. It affects what you think is possible. Sometimes it makes you feel like no matter
what you do, you will never have security, stability, steady income: so why even try? When you have less opportunities available to
you because, for example, you moved from school to school and never really got
an education, you look at those who did differently. You start to wonder who deserves what and
why. And who gets to decide who deserves what?
I
was always curious why no one was making the case for people too small to
fail. Assuming the CEO of Goldman Sachs
was going to be basically okay if Goldman failed (maybe down a house or two,
but basically okay), and many of the folks who found themselves upside down on
their mortgage would, well, not be okay (they’d be minus a place to live, the
ability to get out of debt, good credit, stability), why wouldn’t some people
be too small to let fail. They are so
small there is no cushion, no safety net, no nothing. Why not bail out the too big and the too small. The moral hazard is there in both cases, so
why not do both?
We
bailed out very, very, very few people with bad mortgages. And, we seemed to make a distinction between
people who found themselves upside down because of their own bad decisions, and
those who were decent, hard working folks, who just got unfairly hit when the
economy crashed – “responsible homeowners” the President called them over and
over in his speeches; assuring us we would only bail out people if they
deserved it. Good people. We wouldn’t use limited resources to bail out
people who needed to learn the lesson of their bad decisions.
We
cry “learned dependency,” bail out the banks, and let the bottom folks fend for
themselves…because after all, it’s really what’s best for them. It’s the only way they’ll learn something
other than dependence.
But
it kind of looks like Jesus doesn’t work this way. No requirements, no proof that you’re willing
to work for what you get, no apologies, contrition necessary. Jesus seems to say that the hazard isn’t that
the one in need won’t be moral if we don’t hold them accountable. The hazard is that our privilege and
judgments will undermine our own sense of moral responsibility. And when that happens, people fail and
there’s no family to help them out. They
are left out of the systems/families that always catch us when we fail. They are
left to fend for themselves, and usually do so in more and more desperate
ways. What they learn is that some
people have, some people don’t, and the two are pitted against one another.
One
of the things I thought a lot about during my sabbatical was the issue of
learned dependency. I read and wrote and
prayed about people who are persistently unemployed, dependent, and who we all
think are responsible for that. I
realized that there are people who decide which folks in need are capable of
changing their lives in order to be independent of the social welfare systems,
and which folks are not. And I realized
that we make those judgments without a lot of sophisticated thought, and
probably without a lot of biblical basis.
When
someone comes for help – to the church, to the ministerial association, to Mica
– we look at the resources we have, we look at them, and we answer “Yes, we can
help,” or “No we can’t.” Yes or no…end
of conversation and interaction.
Sometimes the “no” is because of lack of resources. Sometimes it’s because we think it is not the
best use of our resources. We believe
the person asking doesn’t use help wisely, doesn’t help themselves, makes bad
decisions, has no desire to change their lives, so the money is wasted on them
when it could be better used for someone who can be lifted out of poverty. Often, when it’s someone who just seems lazy,
or we think has a sense of entitlement, we believe giving them money just
enables them to keep making the bad decisions that got them where they are in
the first place, in which case our “no” is quite self righteous.
We
have to make these decisions – we are constrained…it’s the reality in which we
live. I know – from firsthand experience
– we have to say “no” sometimes and we have to decide who gets what. I don’t think we should beat ourselves up
about this.
But,
my brilliant conclusion after four months of reading and writing about this is
this: I don’t think this system is
working. And I’ve begun to wonder if
it’s because it’s a system based on privilege.
This is ours – you have to ask
for it – we require things of you to get it, and I have all the power to decide
whether you are worthy of what we have.
It’s the system advocated by the older brother.
We
have to get beyond the “yes/no” system. We have to figure out what comes next. It’s terribly flawed and it’s hurting people.
All
of the reading I did suggested that one of the fundamental problems with how we
try to address and respond to poverty in this world is that we are starting in
the wrong place. We are assuming there
is something wrong with the people who are persistently poor: that they can’t take care of themselves and
we have to figure out how to change them so they can; teach them to fish, and
all that. Instead, many authors argue,
we have to look at our privilege first. First we have to dismantle privilege –
change the system…change ourselves.
Remember,
the father in the story did more than just give the son money to go try
again. He welcomed him back into the
family. He threw a party! This is where all the cries of learned
dependency and moral hazard fall apart in my opinion. It’s true, hand outs aren’t enough. But insisting others change is not the next
step. We have to offer family – safety,
security, love, forgiveness – especially to those who tie our stomach in knots. We have to offer more, not less.
We – all of us who work
hard to respond to poverty responsibly – we’re not the father yet. We’re stuck.
We don’t know how to move beyond the yes/no system. We don’t know what it looks like to see
people as family and welcome them back with a party. I don’t know what it looks like. It’s certainly not simple. My stomach is often tied in knots. Often.
But we have to figure it out. And
my guess is that it requires a lot more change from us than from those we
systematically shut out because they don’t meet our moral standards. And probably it happens one relationship at a
time.
The prodigal son calls
us beyond yes and no. It calls us beyond
power and privilege. It calls us to
bring out the fatted calf, have a party and welcome people back into the family…with
all the benefits that come with that. Safety
nets, security, opportunities beyond what we’ve “earned,” relationships that
transcend behavior, love that is more than pity, and irrational celebrations when
someone comes for help having squandered every last cent we gave them.
Thomas
Ogletree wrote a book called “Hospitality to the Stranger: Dimensions of Moral Understanding.” He talks about hospitality being so much more
than being welcoming to people when they come to you. It means stepping into someone’s shoes and
understanding the powerful dynamics of privilege…how insidious it is. It means letting go of our place in the world
to take on another’s so that we might know best how to love, welcome, and be
family with them. We need to pull some
different levers to see how it might change our
behavior.
He
writes, “The appropriate response to oppression is not only hospitality – it is
repentance, a deep turning of mind away from the familiar world toward the
possibility of a new order of the world.
And in repentance, one’s former position of relative privilege is itself
at risk.”
Confession
during lent:
Repentance, like
Ogletree talks about, means examining who we are and learning about who we
are. Today, maybe we can examine how we are like the prodigal…the ones who
have left the family that welcomes all – the privileged that squanders God’s
love. If we do find ourselves there, we
can repent…turn around. And the promise
is that there we will meet Jesus…we will meet God…who invites us to head
home. And here’s the absolutely crazy
thing: We will be welcomed with no
requirements: No contrition necessary,
no apologies needed, nothing we have to do to prove we’re worthy. We’ll be welcomed and then invited to
dinner…to eat with Jesus….and have a big ole’ party! Amen.